How to Get a Girlfriend - Steps to Get Her Attention

If you feel like you're ready for a girlfriend, but don't really have any idea on how to get one, then this is the guide for you. I'll cover the four key steps on how to get a girlfriend and explain in detail the best way to do them.

By the time you are finished reading this article, getting a girlfriend will seem like second nature to you.

The first step is to get her attention.  I don't mean to tell you to be a stupid show off and try and impress her that way.  That will do the opposite of what you're trying to do here.  Yes, it will get her attention but she'll see right through what you're trying to do and she'll think you're a loser.

Instead, get her attention by simply going out of your way to talk to her or get the door for her, if you have the chance.  Just simply make your presence known to her in this part. 

Also, this is the time to try and get the sense of if she's into you or not.  If you get the vibe she's not, then stop annoying her and save yourself some frustration.  If she's not into you, just try and get the attention of a different girl who is.

Once you've got her attention, start spending more and more time talking to her and getting to know her. Get to know as much as you possibly can about her. Ask her what her favorite movies are, favorite foods, favorite pass times and favorite music. Study everything about her . However do not get too obsessed or carried away or you'll come off as a stalker and that's a big no-no.

Make an effort to spend at least 30 minutes to an hour a day talking to her at first and as things progress, increase that amount of time.

When you feel like you've gotten her attention, gotten to know her well enough and figured out she's definitely into you, it's time to take the big bold brave step of asking her out. This is where most guys runs into trouble, because they simply don't know the best way to go about doing this.

The trick is all about making it as natural as possible. Hopefully you got to know her well enough in Step 2 that you have an idea of something she'd find would make a fun date. What are her favorite hobbies and pass times? Choose one of those and make it a date. I wouldn't recommend a scrap booking date, by the way. Just choose one of her pass times that appeals to you too.

Bring it up naturally in a conversation. One day while you're talking to her, get on the subject of that pass time. Then after the conversation has run its course, simply ask her if she'd like to do that with you on the upcoming weekend. If she's really into you and if you've spent enough time getting to know each other, she'll most likely say yes.

Dress nice and double check your hygiene before the date, because the first date is the most important of all of them.  If you're picking her up, be sure to make a good impression on her family or room mates or whoever she's living with.  Get the door for her when she gets in your car and when you both get to wherever your going.  Just practice good etiquette and display good manners and things are bound to go well.

This part may take awhile and that's okay.  It's best you both spend enough time on casual dates getting to know each other and making sure you're really a good match before you push things across the line into the 'serious' territory.  It may take even longer to build enough trust to make things official if either one of you has had your heart majorly broken in the past.  That's okay.  Just be patient and things will work themselves out.

The best thing to do is just keep the dates casual until the girl starts pressing the matter of becoming official.  When she starts talking about that, you'll know the time is right.  Just accept her idea and voila - you're official.

At this point, congratulations!  You now officially have a girlfriend.